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Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Beyond selfishness. Are you game?=P

Today,

gonna start off with a motto of mine, -to let others-.

No,there is nothing wrong wif it. Yes,-to let others-.

Okay,if ur gonna start wif how terible is my english, save it. muet's over .

Something I learn these few weeks,

life is like this,you want it or not.

Many, in fact, most people are selfish.

Selfish cn be defined in many aspects. selfish for properties, selfish for own glory, selfish for fame n etc.

These are those aspects which i believe many people have n not very descent indeed.

Well, these types...

selfish for self survival,selfish to be loved, these are the ones that many tend to be

Unavoidable.
even I have it kays.
(human nature...unless ur a pencil case...different story..*shake it off*)

but

Selfish for loved ones

this the one selfishness i can actually hear and accept because i've seen those whom are slfish purely of the safety n livelihood of their family and spouse.


These, i truly salute. They willing to sacrifice their own time n energy etc etc...of themselves n others, just fr their family.

Not many hv this type of selfishness.


(Come on, if you said nope, non of these describes me even slightly, suck it up, ask urself again)

Okay, but generally,excluding the final statements, I would have a life motto.

(i sound like n exageration isnt it)

In anyway, in anytime, to let others. This, wil make me live my life as i want it to be.

I m not divine, i m just another ordinary girl.

Trying to make people I care happy. People around me happy. People I love happy.

I couldnt generally satisfy every one.

so i chosed to prioritise people whom I care and try my best fr everyone i know. Just sumtimes,i cant. Im not that strong. but I do try.


(Sorry, except if you're being a b*tch n royal pain in the neck to everyone, nope.you're not worth it as far as i concern )

I truly dont respect those whom trash others, whom look down on others thinking they are so great, those whom hipocrite n backstabbers. seriously, get a life dude. If you keep up with tis atitude, you r a waste of space.

but i havent met any now...if i do, hope i can make them change?=)

Those i care, i really care. but In the way of letting others, i plan to satisfy everyone,to give the best they can get, even if it means putting me out of the picture, but giving them what they needed or wanted, sometimes, it might not be the best option.



I realised that people I care, cared of me as well.

They would want me in the picture of theirs, not all,


IN the end, there will be a solution planned. I dont have to worry. Its been there all the long . I just dont see it. Its just there. Evrythng will be laid there for us to see.

The truth,the solution,the reason..everthng fixes like an...

-auto made puzzle-


wow..it sound cute. I might open a company with this name. automade puzzle.

Okay,anyway, as we're waiting fr truth unfolds,


i hope no1 reads this post. well,i dun think any1 does,its in its hibernating mode!wif my imaginary cat perhaps?

Anyway, i feel that,its not a matter if we sacrifice our own benefits lets say, for others opinions and wants.

For me, I dont mind because when i fullfill others wants, i will be satisfied and happy.

No matter what it put me tru. when people I cared about are happy, I will be.
It just feel worth it. I never want to make others hard. I try my very best to avoid givin trouble to people or chines call it 'mafan'. others. Never. I will feel bad.

So even if i need to put in effort, i dun mind as long as others will not be troubled. You must sorta predict feelings of others,their opinions.

Not everyone will just wear their moods on their sleeves. not everyone will shout out if they are pissed. not everyine will weep in fron of you if they r sad.

Last time i used to think its not necessary,but now i feel how important is

childhood home education on courtesy and self principals.


It wil reflect hu ur gonna be in the future. I m not perfect. nobody is. I have own flaws n weakness. but i m yet to discover.
i did mistakes in my past. I will learn from it.

With help of people around me, I hope I can be a better person in the future. I hope I can make a change in this world. Anyone is with me? Are you game? xD


Just me,

Fion Liew

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Beyond selfishness. Are you game?=P

Today,

gonna start off with a motto of mine, -to let others-.

No,there is nothing wrong wif it. Yes,-to let others-.

Okay,if ur gonna start wif how terible is my english, save it. muet's over .

Something I learn these few weeks,

life is like this,you want it or not.

Many, in fact, most people are selfish.

Selfish cn be defined in many aspects. selfish for properties, selfish for own glory, selfish for fame n etc.

These are those aspects which i believe many people have n not very descent indeed.

Well, these types...

selfish for self survival,selfish to be loved, these are the ones that many tend to be

Unavoidable.
even I have it kays.
(human nature...unless ur a pencil case...different story..*shake it off*)

but

Selfish for loved ones

this the one selfishness i can actually hear and accept because i've seen those whom are slfish purely of the safety n livelihood of their family and spouse.


These, i truly salute. They willing to sacrifice their own time n energy etc etc...of themselves n others, just fr their family.

Not many hv this type of selfishness.


(Come on, if you said nope, non of these describes me even slightly, suck it up, ask urself again)

Okay, but generally,excluding the final statements, I would have a life motto.

(i sound like n exageration isnt it)

In anyway, in anytime, to let others. This, wil make me live my life as i want it to be.

I m not divine, i m just another ordinary girl.

Trying to make people I care happy. People around me happy. People I love happy.

I couldnt generally satisfy every one.

so i chosed to prioritise people whom I care and try my best fr everyone i know. Just sumtimes,i cant. Im not that strong. but I do try.


(Sorry, except if you're being a b*tch n royal pain in the neck to everyone, nope.you're not worth it as far as i concern )

I truly dont respect those whom trash others, whom look down on others thinking they are so great, those whom hipocrite n backstabbers. seriously, get a life dude. If you keep up with tis atitude, you r a waste of space.

but i havent met any now...if i do, hope i can make them change?=)

Those i care, i really care. but In the way of letting others, i plan to satisfy everyone,to give the best they can get, even if it means putting me out of the picture, but giving them what they needed or wanted, sometimes, it might not be the best option.



I realised that people I care, cared of me as well.

They would want me in the picture of theirs, not all,


IN the end, there will be a solution planned. I dont have to worry. Its been there all the long . I just dont see it. Its just there. Evrythng will be laid there for us to see.

The truth,the solution,the reason..everthng fixes like an...

-auto made puzzle-


wow..it sound cute. I might open a company with this name. automade puzzle.

Okay,anyway, as we're waiting fr truth unfolds,


i hope no1 reads this post. well,i dun think any1 does,its in its hibernating mode!wif my imaginary cat perhaps?

Anyway, i feel that,its not a matter if we sacrifice our own benefits lets say, for others opinions and wants.

For me, I dont mind because when i fullfill others wants, i will be satisfied and happy.

No matter what it put me tru. when people I cared about are happy, I will be.
It just feel worth it. I never want to make others hard. I try my very best to avoid givin trouble to people or chines call it 'mafan'. others. Never. I will feel bad.

So even if i need to put in effort, i dun mind as long as others will not be troubled. You must sorta predict feelings of others,their opinions.

Not everyone will just wear their moods on their sleeves. not everyone will shout out if they are pissed. not everyine will weep in fron of you if they r sad.

Last time i used to think its not necessary,but now i feel how important is

childhood home education on courtesy and self principals.


It wil reflect hu ur gonna be in the future. I m not perfect. nobody is. I have own flaws n weakness. but i m yet to discover.
i did mistakes in my past. I will learn from it.

With help of people around me, I hope I can be a better person in the future. I hope I can make a change in this world. Anyone is with me? Are you game? xD


Just me,

Fion Liew